Confirm or decline a request
Confirm a parent link via the link in the email or in your profile under Parents and children. Declining works the same way. Requests are valid for 14 days.
What is this?
If your child or your parent starts a parent link, you have to confirm it. Only then is it active. If Lina enters her mother Petra, Petra confirms. If Petra enters her daughter Lina, Lina confirms.
Exception: if the choir leadership links you from the member list, the link is active immediately. You both only get a notification.
How to confirm
By email:
- Open the email "… wants to link with you".
- Click "View request". The link takes you to the sign-in page if you are not signed in.
- Sign in with exactly the account the request is addressed to.
- Click "Confirm" or "Decline".
On the web in the settings:
- Open the settings via your profile picture at the top right and choose "Parents and children".
- At the top there is a notice "Confirm the link with …?".
- Click "Confirm" or "Decline".
In the app:
- Tap your avatar at the top right and choose "Parent link".
- The request is shown at the top as a card under "Open requests".
- Tap "Confirm" or "Decline".
What applies after confirming
- The link is active immediately in all choirs where you are both members. Your profile shows for each link in which choirs it applies.
- From now on the parent can confirm and decline for the child and vote, and sees everything the child sees in the shared choir.
- Both sides see the link in their own profile. In the member list, the child shows a note "Guardians: Petra Müller".
- Only the parent can remove the link later.
Declining
If you decline, everything stays as it was. The requesting person gets a notification; no reason is needed. They can ask again later.
Expired request
A request is valid for 14 days. After that the link no longer works and the request can no longer be confirmed. The requesting person simply starts it again.
Frequently asked questions
The link asks me to sign in. Why?▾
I did not receive the email. What now?▾
Does the requesting person find out if I decline?▾
The link has expired. Can I still confirm?▾
Related features
Start a link
Enter your child's or parent's email address in your profile. The other side confirms via the link or in their profile. Requirement: a shared choir.
Eltern & Kinder
Remove a link
Only the parent removes the parent link, in the profile under People I manage. The child is notified. The choir leadership and the child cannot.
Eltern & Kinder
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